Jesus answered and said unto him, "Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God." John 3:3. Jesus is pretty clear when He says that a person must be born again if they want to see the Kingdom of God. What does that mean?

1) Admit that you are a sinner. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23. The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is Eternal Life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:23

​2) Believe that Jesus died for you and rose again. If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9. For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

​3) Repent, turn from your sins and turn back to God. Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the Name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Acts 2:38. Therefore, repent and return, so that your sins may be wiped away, in order that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord. Acts 3:19​. And forgive us of our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us. Matthew 6:12 

4) Commit, ask Jesus to come in and take control of your life. "Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear My voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with Me." Revelation 3:20. For with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation. Romans 10:10